She doesn't want you to get angry with the person she's having drama with because then you won't let her hang out with that person anymore. Or she'll have to hide it from you when she does.
Your daughter doesn't want you to think she has bad judgment or hear the list of reasons why you think she has bad judgment.
She doesn't want you to take away her technology, assuming the problem involves social media and it often does.
She wants to feel that she can handle things on her own, and she really doesn't want you to freak out and start calling or emailing people. Now that would be a problem.