JUST NOT WITH YOU

The first clue that your wife may cheat is so odd that most men would never consider it a warning sign: She is seemingly disinterested in sex. Here's the catch: She's not disinterested in sex. She's disinterested in sex with you. Most men would never suspect their wife of cheating because she's a "good girl." Most women say they would never cheat because they're "not the type." But once women do cheat, they can't stop -- even though they are appalled and shocked by their own behavior. That's the word from Michelle Langley, author of "Women's Infidelity: Living in Limbo: What Women Really Mean When They Say 'I'm Not Happy.'" Langley says women's relationships and their descent into infidelity follow a very predictable seven-step pattern:

• They push men for commitment.
• They get what they want.
• They lose interest in sex.
• They become attracted to someone else.
• They start cheating.
• They become angry and resentful.
• They begin telling their partners they need time apart.

Cheating women not only tend to blame their innocent partners for their own infidelity, but also make everyone around them miserable. And then after a long time, they end their marriage. Nearly 75 percent of all divorces are initiated by women. The most common time for a woman to want a divorce is when she is in her late 20s or early 30s and has been married for about four years.